I was separated from my now ex wife for about 10 months when I joined the program; then and only then did I develop anxiety about what was going on in her life, day to day, week to week I, and became interested in the environment my children were in and how it affected them. Needless to say, her environment wasn't conducive to my healing nor my children and I felt tethered to her emotionally once again.

I joined the program because I felt I needed help. Originally I thought it was a phase to the adjustment. As a male I didn't think I'd need help initially but after my consultation with Fernando and my own self reflection of the situation I knew it was time.

What changed for me is my realization that I would be ok. I hung on to hope my kids would be too despite their Mother's lifestyle and environment. That the situation and my feelings were temporary. I began to notice that her chaos was not my own and that things were better without her.

Any man on the fence about receiving guidance should at least expose themselves to the opportunity. You don't have to do it alone. I find it better to learn from other's mistakes and experiences.

Before I found Divorce to Dominance, I felt completely lost. I didn't know if I should fight for my marriage or move on, and I was overwhelmed by fear, guilt, and uncertainty.

What I found here wasn't just advice—it was clarity.

Instead of obsessing over what she was doing, I learned to focus on myself. I rebuilt my confidence, regained my purpose, and started becoming the man I wanted to be, regardless of the outcome of my marriage.

Today, I'm in a completely different place. I feel grounded, confident, and in control of my life again.

If you're going through separation or divorce and you feel stuck, I can't recommend Divorce to Dominance enough. It gave me the clarity and direction I needed when I needed it most.